Whether you plan on moving in with a friend, a family member, or someone you don't yet know, inviting someone to live with you is a big commitment. To make sure you have all the information you need to feel comfortable, here are a few topics we recommend you discuss with your potential roommate over coffee or a call (whether you know them or not).
Financials: What is your employment status? Have you ever had trouble paying the rent on time? How long do you expect to stay in town?
This is usually the first topic that springs to mind when interviewing a potential roommate. Depending on your situation, you may be relying on your roommate to pay the rent, so it's important that whoever you're living with is reliable and has a good history of paying rent on time. Having a frank conversation about paying the rent, their employment status, and if they plan on staying in town for the duration of the lease will give you the peace of mind you need to move forward.
Social Life: Are you an introvert or an extrovert? What's your social life like? What are your hobbies? How do you like to spend your downtime?
While opposites can get on really well outside of the home, it can cause friction if one person is a homebody who likes quiet time to cozy up with a good book, while the other plays a loud instrument or hosts parties every other night. Talking about your preferences, hobbies,s and interests up front sets realistic expectations/boundaries and will ensure you are comfortable living together in 3 months’ time.
Pets: Do you have any pets?
Pets can be such a fun and loving addition to any home, but they can also cause a lot of chaos, mess, and destruction if they aren't properly trained. Our top tip? If the answer to this question is yes, arrange to meet the little guy ahead of time so you can get a feel for their energy and check that you get along before they move into your home. Don’t forget to reach out to our team to better understand breed, weight, and number restrictions.
Work Schedule: What's your work schedule?
It can be hard to live with someone whose schedule is opposite to yours. If you're trying to sleep while your roommate is awake, blasting the TV, it can lead to a lack of sleep and conflict within the home. Being aware of your roommate’s schedule can help avoid any tension down the line.
Cleanliness: How often do you clean? Do you smoke?
Everyone has different expectations for cleanliness, and they don't always align. Some people like everything to be in its place and clean in small doses on a daily basis, while others aren't phased by the dishes piling up and getting to them later. Consider developing a cleaning schedule to divide the tasks fairly between both parties.
Relationships: Do you have a significant other or best friend that you expect to be over all the time?
Having another human in the home can increase bills and noise. Set expectations ahead of time so you're not passively inviting 2 people to live in your home.
If you address these 6 key areas, you're setting yourself up for a successful roommate relationship! What other questions would you ask a potential roommate? Tell us in the comments below!
[Renter tip: If you are renting an apartment, make sure to speak with your property management company because you are most likely required to add a new roommate to your lease.]